Thursday, June 21, 2012

The Unspoken Words in Relationship

Words play a very vital part in our life as humans. The creation of the world was by words. Nothing will ever work without words. Just imagine the world for a moment without sound, without words. If everyone were to be deaf and dumb life would be excruciatingly frustrating. That is why words are not cheap. To be able to talk is one of the greatest gifts given to you by God.
The ability to communicate is too essential in any relationship you are building or intending to build. When words are well spoken it brings refreshing to the soul, if not it creates disaster. Relationships are built through the power of words and are also scattered through words also. Wars begin because of words. Peace is also brokered through words. You need to understand that words links people and it separates as well. You must also take into consideration the fact that your word today has the capacity to create the world you will live in tomorrow. One wrong word has sent people to jail or even out of life.
WORDS ARE IRRETRIEVABLE
Words are absolutely irretrievable, no matter how much you apologized for saying the wrong things. The fact still remains that you cannot withdraw your statement from the minds of people, as the mind is a very powerful storage device. They will always be remembered. The words that will not be remembered are the ones unsaid. So wisdom demands that you manage your words in any relationship whether with friends, employer, teachers, parents, children, spouse etc.

Sometimes people say things before they reason it out only to discover that the harm has already been done. Words will always determine your mood. It can create an atmosphere of peace or that of trouble, acceptance or rejection. Words are great tools you can use to shape a great relationship. Right words are the platform upon which great and exciting relationships is established. Voicing your displeasure in an angry emotional state could lead to something you never bargained for. You can devise a means to say an unpleasant thing in a way that the effect may not be felt, yet be well noted.

Don’t be too generous with wrong and harsh words in the name of saying it as it is without been considerate. Good words create good relationship. Great words make great friends. Excellent communication builds an excellent affair. Which do you prefer. The choice is yours.

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