I have heard that much water cannot quench the fire of love,
but the spate at which heart break takes place among the singles as well as the
married, everyday is alarming. And that leaves us in a quandary as to how true
that statement is.
Love could actually be wonderful when all is well, but when it turned sour it becomes a very dangerous tool of hurt. And so many people who have been involved on the other side of love are now finding it difficult to cope with other relationships because of past hurt, thereby mortgaging their future. If you are among those who now taste the bitter pill of heart break, just hang on with me I have news for you.
Break up in any relationship is not usually easy to bear. It’s something that could shatter your world into pieces. But then that is subject to you, if you want your life to remain shattered. This is because what you allow is what will affect you. What you do not allow cannot affect you. If you keep admitting the pain of a broken relationship into your life continually, you will ultimately be destroyed by it.
Whenever love turned sour, it leaves you with a kind of bitterness in your heart. It is like your world has come to an end and life seems to hold no more meaning for you. Consequently you recoil into your shell of sorrow, mourning your lost love. And you may sometimes lose your mind trying to do so.
Friend, I have something to tell you: your life is too precious to be sacrificed on the altar of the love that could not work yesterday. It’s gone! Face the stark reality. You cannot do anything about your past but then there is something you can do today to make sure your future is still secured. Do not let the aborted relationship of yesterday hold your tomorrow hostage.
Look at things this way; if your ex-lover has any relevant part to play in your future he could have stayed. God might just be delivering you from the hazard the relationship may cause you in the future. Its better you face up to the heartbreak now and get over it and start all over. Why should the relationship that did not work yesterday hold you to ransom today and closed the doors of so many opportunities that would come your way in the future.
That your relationship failed does not mean it’s the end of life for you. And does not in any way mean you can't build another that would last a lifetime. Do not build a wall of defense around you because of your past experience. It is not worth it. Some people closed up after been jilted. That is not the best thing to do. It would stop you from a very flourishing experience in the future.
Do not change your philosophy to accommodate your tragedy, that all men are wicked or that all women are daughters of evil. You were only unfortunate to meet the wrong person who happens to break your heart. There are so many great men and women out there that you have not met yet. So why close your life to them because of one wrong relationship. One bad egg must not be used as judgment against others.
You still have a great life ahead of you because what lies ahead is greater than what lies behind. There is glory you have never known than the story you behind you. The world is too loaded with wonderful people, so break out of your cocoon of bitterness, and give life another chance. Who knows you will thank God that things happened the way they did. Your heart may be broken but do not destroy it by dwelling on your broken relationship. There is hope still.
Love could actually be wonderful when all is well, but when it turned sour it becomes a very dangerous tool of hurt. And so many people who have been involved on the other side of love are now finding it difficult to cope with other relationships because of past hurt, thereby mortgaging their future. If you are among those who now taste the bitter pill of heart break, just hang on with me I have news for you.
Break up in any relationship is not usually easy to bear. It’s something that could shatter your world into pieces. But then that is subject to you, if you want your life to remain shattered. This is because what you allow is what will affect you. What you do not allow cannot affect you. If you keep admitting the pain of a broken relationship into your life continually, you will ultimately be destroyed by it.
Whenever love turned sour, it leaves you with a kind of bitterness in your heart. It is like your world has come to an end and life seems to hold no more meaning for you. Consequently you recoil into your shell of sorrow, mourning your lost love. And you may sometimes lose your mind trying to do so.
Friend, I have something to tell you: your life is too precious to be sacrificed on the altar of the love that could not work yesterday. It’s gone! Face the stark reality. You cannot do anything about your past but then there is something you can do today to make sure your future is still secured. Do not let the aborted relationship of yesterday hold your tomorrow hostage.
Look at things this way; if your ex-lover has any relevant part to play in your future he could have stayed. God might just be delivering you from the hazard the relationship may cause you in the future. Its better you face up to the heartbreak now and get over it and start all over. Why should the relationship that did not work yesterday hold you to ransom today and closed the doors of so many opportunities that would come your way in the future.
That your relationship failed does not mean it’s the end of life for you. And does not in any way mean you can't build another that would last a lifetime. Do not build a wall of defense around you because of your past experience. It is not worth it. Some people closed up after been jilted. That is not the best thing to do. It would stop you from a very flourishing experience in the future.
Do not change your philosophy to accommodate your tragedy, that all men are wicked or that all women are daughters of evil. You were only unfortunate to meet the wrong person who happens to break your heart. There are so many great men and women out there that you have not met yet. So why close your life to them because of one wrong relationship. One bad egg must not be used as judgment against others.
You still have a great life ahead of you because what lies ahead is greater than what lies behind. There is glory you have never known than the story you behind you. The world is too loaded with wonderful people, so break out of your cocoon of bitterness, and give life another chance. Who knows you will thank God that things happened the way they did. Your heart may be broken but do not destroy it by dwelling on your broken relationship. There is hope still.
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