Taking Risk On Love

Life they say is a risk. But my question is. Should one venture into something blindly because it’s risky not to take risk? I think there are certain risks in life that should be avoided, when a calculated analysis of the situation on ground is taken. People sometimes jumped into relationships without counting the cost especially when it has to do with love.

People have entered into a wrong relationship before they made the greatest discovery of their lives. Amazingly they will not quit the relationship even after the discovery that the relationship would not work. They continue in the relationship with the hope that a change might take place in the future and alas the change they anticipated never comes. So they end up enduring instead of enjoying the relationship. It then ultimately ends up in disaster of heartbreak. There is an adage that says no matter how long you spend on the wrong road you can never end up in the right destination. It is therefore wisdom to do a U-turn before it is too late.

Do not think someday the relationship would work when all the signs that it won’t happen, are all staring at you in the face. Relationship should be entered into with careful observation and unbiased analysis, especially if it has to do with the heart. The heart is too delicate for you to give away carelessly. You are the only one who has the power to manage your heart properly. No one seems to know the value of their heart until it is splintered. The truth is, once it is shattered it can never be the same. It could be healed though, but then it leaves you with a scar forever. So, if you do not want to live with a broken heart, avoid the risk. Only do when you have made up your mind to take responsibility for your action and the consequences that may follow.

EMOTION

Every relationship that is built on just emotions only, is treading on dangerous ground. The focus on feelings, goose bumps, sweet words and gifts has made many miscalculated. Love is more than feeling. It is an informed decision on your part to stand by another person. When you allowed your emotion to control you then you are in serious trouble. Some people would say they were swept off their feet the moment they met their love. Little wonder they never got to be planted in that relationship.

A successful relationship is the one that is organized and worked out through strong decision and mutual understanding. So do not say life is a risk and jump into every available risk you see. Do not take that risk on love by diving into it emotion first. Look before you leap. At least it will help you not to fall into that ditch call heart break.