Mistakes In Relationship: How To Handle It

No matter how much you call someone your angel the fact still remains that he or she is human and subject to making mistakes sometimes. No one is perfect. Only God is. The way some people react when their partner makes a mistake, leaves me baffled sometimes. It portends that they themselves are hundred percent above mistakes. But is that true?

Well, the greatest blunder you can ever make in life is to think or believe you are above mistakes. Even the most intelligible and perfection conscious person do slip up sometimes. The man who created the pencil leaves an eraser at the bottom of it for the purpose of erasing mistakes. That is why you must be ready to tolerate mistakes from your partner, friends, parents, children, employer, employees, etc.

DON’T THINK OF IT

If you are the type that cannot condone people’s shortcoming, I will advice you not to venture into any relationship at all, but then you cannot do without one. You have to condition yourself to forgive. It is mistakes that expose our very human nature to us. If you keep considering the wrongs that are done to you, you will never be able to get a good juice out of your relationship.

Mistakes have brought two total strangers together, who later went to become two great friends. So forgiveness is a very crucial strengthener of any relationship. View offences from the eyes of the divine. To look at things from the position of divinity is greater than reacting from the platform of humanity. Remember, to err is human, to forgive is divine. If you say you won’t forgive today, definitely it will be your turn to go wrong tomorrow. What do you expect if the table turns round on you? There is no point making a big fuss over any trivial issue. It is not everything you get sour about. Some things should be overlooked. If you keep running with every little mistake you are killing that relationship. It can never be healthy. You will leave your partner with no choice than to quit as nobody wants to be always reminded of their failures. To be a judge you have to first judge yourself whether you qualify.

We cannot rule out the fact that some blunders could be very fatal. However fatal it may be, it can never be beyond forgiveness.